Choosing regret







When a choice is made to live in regret, the world never seems fair.

 

2020 has given us plenty of opportunity for regret.  Raw and emotional decisions on safety, health, and welfare affected every business and are common connections to us all that for what seems certain, no one got it all right (and maybe no one can).  Some businesses stayed open, some closed.  Some leaders chose furlough, some fired.  Plastic makers shifted to make retail shields, underwear makers turned upside down made gaiters and masks. Everyone is making hard decisions. Decisions we later learn were right, some wrong, learning moments of personal and professional growth. 

 

When we choose to accept regret, conversations with others start with “would of, could of, and should of” give us easy reason to bitch and complain, stealing energy that could be planning for our best day, our best leader. 

 

The choice to say “I was wrong, move on”, cost nothing and frees yourself to be your best self going forward.

 

Without that choice, we slow ourselves down from being our best leaders.

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